Crawling, walking, talking—every parent relishes the first time their child reaches one of these important milestones. But it’s easy for parents to start worrying if their child is a bit behind ‘schedule.’ Don’t worry, though! All babies develop at their own pace, and some will hit certain landmarks sooner than others. Here are some of a baby’s most important developmental milestones—the ones you’ll want to remember forever.
- Smiling—Although babies may give you a little grin earlier, most babies only give a true, sincere smile at about five-eight weeks. When smiling sincerely, a baby will make eye contact and react to your facial expressions and voice.
- Sitting Up—Some babies can learn to sit up and support themselves much faster than others, but around six or seven months is typical. You can help your child along by propping her up with pillows, or having her lean forward with her legs apart and supporting herself with her hands.
- Eating On Her Own—Once your baby has begun to eat solid foods, at eight to nine months you can supervise her as she tries out eating on her own. Offer her little bits of foods such as bananas or cereal. Most children, however, won’t be able to use utensils for another 8-9 months.
- Knowing Her Name—Children usually begin to recognize the sound of their name when they’re eight to ten months. It may be hard to tell if your baby is responding to her name or just the sound of your voice. Help her learn by removing background noise and speaking her name clearly and giving her time to respond.
- Crawling—A lot of children learn to walk before they can crawl, but many begin to move about in other strange ways as well. Babies may scoot on their bellies or their bottoms, or just roll around. Children usually begin to move around on their own at eight to ten months.
- Standing Unsupported—At about ten to twelve months, your baby may begin to stand unsupported. You can help her work up to this by placing toys on a low table that she can support herself on, or by helping hold her up as she learns to be comfortable on her own two feet.
- First Word—Most babies speak their first “word” when they’ve reached twelve to thirteen months. It is most common for babies to start with the first syllable of a word repeated, such as “mama” or “dada.” They may also speak the name of a pet, sibling, or toy. Around eighteen months they may begin to speak full words and possibly short phrases.
- Walking—Most babies begin to walk at about twelve to fifteen months, but it is not only difficult, but also requires confidence. Help your child feel self-assured by holding her hands and gradually easing away your support. Don’t worry if it takes your baby longer to learn—babies will begin to walk when they’re ready.
Witnessing each of these moments will bring you immense joy, knowing that your baby is developing and growing up. Again, however, don’t worry if your child seems to be behind the learning curve. Just because she can’t stand or talk as soon as other babies does not mean she’s less intelligent or has other problems. Every baby will develop at his or her own pace.